Sex during pregnancy

Q: Now I’m pregnant in 8 months & this is my first child. When having sex with my husband, I realize that my vagina turn to be very sensitive & it hurts when I want to pee. For your information, my vagina is very dry even my husband made foreplay before us having a sex but it doesn’t work at all. This make me lost interest to do it again. What make me more curious is if a liquid came out during pregnancy, isn’t normal or it’s dangerous? Hopefully you can help me in order to overcome this matter. I’m afraid my husband won’t interest doing it anymore.

A: Pregnancy is one period of time full of pressure & stress. From the physical our body will work more than usual which is more than 40%. Above of this problem, it make a mother is less interest in doing sex or respond to it. It’s actually not happen to all women, only less including you. We hope that this problem is only for temporary & in this case, a husband needs to sympathize on mum’s health including the safety of herself & the baby. But if the foreplay is by using hand, it’s alright after all is illegal in our religion.

Blood, pregnancy & test kit

Q: Is there any possibilities a pregnant women can get menstrual? How & why it’s happened? For how long it will take? Is there any pregnancy test kit that can be used & trusted? Can you give your opinion about Anmum?

A: The blood that comes out during pregnancy is a sign of abortion. Maybe it’s a pregnancy out of womb or grape pregnancy. It’s really important to consult a specialist & make several tests to ensure it. Regarding about pregnancy test kit, it depends on the urine. Usually it results on the date or time of menstrual. If the test kit shows positive so the probabilities is pregnant but if negative so the pregnancy won’t happen. About Anmum is one of the milk or supplement that can be used for pregnancy women & a mother can take any kind of milk as long as it can provide a lot of calcium & protein. Not only that, a mother need to take a balance diet & eat healthy food together with healthy life styles.

Difficulty of pregnancy

Q: My first marriage, I had 4 children & my youngest child is 8 years old. In 2002, I re-married & we are really happy. In June 2003, I was pregnant for 2 weeks. My husband & I were really happy but lastly I’m frustrated because I had abnormal pregnancy & need to do an operation & thrown away my left ovary. My doctor give me fertilize pills but now I’m 40 years old. I’m hoping can have a child with my current husband but to make other surgery, it’s very expensive & we can’t afford it. Last month, I read an article & in that article mention about “Clomiphene” so I’ve tried it on second day of menstrual. I ate it for 5 days with 2 pills each day. The changes are my nipple is getting bigger & its hurts like I’m pregnant. But unfortunately, I’m still having my menstrual like usual. Can you suggest what type of pills that I should take for rapid pregnancy?

a: I’m so sorry to hear your problem. After eating “Clomiphene” for 2 or 3 months & still don’t get any positive result, for better you should try the X-Ray Procedure which is to open the fallopian tube. It’s called “Hysterosalpingogram” or “HSG”. It’s been treated by specialized & it’s done after menstrual & on 8-12 days in fertilization.

If the both tube are open, you should take fertilize pills (2 pills each day) for 5 days during second or third day of menstrual for 3 or 4 months. If it doesn’t workout, I suggest you do the “Intra-Uterine-Insemination” or “IUI”. Regarding to your age, the fertilization level is decreased & u can do all the efforts in order to get a child & don’t forget to pray.